But in my case, I'll say love is a strong affection felt between 2 or more person, is when you feel something more than friendship but can't quite describe it, or when you begin to see someone in a very positive light etc.
The love we give away is the
only love we keep.
Elbert Hubbard
while I'm writing this, most people right now are maybe preparing for valentine day tomorrow. I'm not saying that i'm valentineless... is just that i'm not into one! dun get me wrong. But back to the topic.
Sometimes i get confused with 3 kinds of things: LOVE-LIKE-CRUSH. ho ho sometimes they even tell you " i have feelings for you". The word LOVE are said too much till most people doesn't care what they meant was serious or not. Even Frankie J got fed up with the word 'i love you'....But some ppl would rather say i like you and try to avoid the word love because they know how serious it is. But 1 thing about crushes... they always end up hurt; that's why they called it crushes! i have to agree with that though... those ppl who i known before told me about their crushes experience. "she said she had a crush on me, what it suppose to man?..".. and in the end... that guy being ignored, criticized and lost confidence. But of course there are some crushes not being crushed!!... maybe u could tell me... LOL
If I know what love is,
it is because of you.
Herman Hesse
I have to admit though, i had mis-use the word i love you many times. After 3 relationship i said i love u a couple of dozen times even though i don't really know what it really meant. The first relationship with Allyson( now i guess known as Evelyn) i was being naive and because of not-having-a-gf-before, i said i loved her, and nvr leave her. but obviously we gone far apart and nvr had anything in common so we split.
As for 2nd relationship, most of you know her as Josephine. I was being serious, too serious about it!!! i notice that she nvr once mention 'i love you' or ' i like you' before, but i guess we were juz young so what the heck? but my attachment to her was too strong untill 1 day when we break... it was too hard for me to stand again. Now i'm not saying how miserable love can be, it's all about risk to me. I said it to a few certain ppl before and i'm gonna said it again, Love is all about taking risk... the u avoid it, the more risk you'll get. But i'm the kind of person who keeps everything in my heart, anger.. sorrow..including love, except happiness. Sometimes you'll see me happy but deep down i was badly hurt,ironic. The only way i could express myself is someone to convince me to.(but not everyone can do it though lol).
Love cures people,
both the ones who give it, and
the ones who receive it.
Karl Menninger
As we moving into the millennium years, i bet 80% or more in the world said 'I love you' till the L word wasn't sincere anymore. That leaves those innocent people (including me) untrustable.
who could i blame for the society we are living in now? but of course girls sSHOULD cautions with the guys.(eh..sorry guys).. some are too cunning but some are juz facing crisis with low self esteem... lol
We can only learn to love by loving.
Iris Murdoch
So what does Valentine's Day mean today? It means little candy hearts with messages like "Be mine!" and "Kiss me!" and "This sugary treat brought to you by your local family dentist!" and to those who are going to celebrate... have fun!!!! and to those who were still single.. valnetines is more than looking more smooches and cuddles... it can be spent with your family and the long lost friends...
so have fun and stay alive!!!!
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