Saturday, March 22, 2008

Sexual orientation: gay & lesbian

Yes, I'm going to write something about homosexuality. By now you'll be thinking that I might be having some issues about my sexual attractions, but fear not.. I'm not becoming gay, and to the gay people... I'm not turning gay. I'm not! I'M NOT!!
Recently I'd watched Chuck & Larry, some show about 2 straight men act as gay men and got themselves married so either one will heritage their properties after one death. Of course, the government and the society in Brooklyn doesn't feel comfortable about homosexuality.
So what about Malaysian government towards homosexuality society?
What's with homosexuality?
It is also known as Sexual Orientation, having said as an enduring emotional, affectional attraction to another person and is easily distinguished from other components of sexuality including gender identity... or gender role. That means some gay guy, will turn out.. you know, GAY. Other gay guy, will still hold their gender norms such as masculine behavior.
Sexual orientation refers to feelings and self concept...
Malaysian Government?
Though not much issues on gays and lesbian in Malaysia, that is because it is well known that they'll be... rejected. Now that's harsh. However, gay life in Malaysia is blossoming despite conservation religion based discrimination. Former Deputy Prime Minister, Anwar Ibrahim was famously removed from office by trumped-up sodomy conviction that was reversed by Malaysia's high court. Malaysian.. Islam country, punish gay or lesbian sexual activity with flogging and male transvestism with imprisonment.
With all that said, the law doesn't apply to non muslim. Police may arrest any person for public sex. So now we're saying law is above God's creation? (or am I questioning God's creation?)
What happen to free will?
Now, I'm being religious, God made created us to have free will, we all know that free will cannot be messed with.. it is after all... FREE WILL. It is a crime having sexual attractions with the same sex? It is the individuals will... does it break God's guidance?
I know I don't have rights to say all these... when humans can go homosexual, I'm sure animals can too. Homosexual behavior in animals, such as the bottlenose dolphin can be said.. common.
Will they be punish under court's law?
Gay men, not all of them have the courage to step up and announce that they are gay.. unless motivated. Of course, homosexuality among men are not that interesting.
Guys love chicks, whether anot gay or straight. HAHA! If that turn you on.
The risk of exposure to HIV is related to a person's behaviour, not their sexual orientation. But it must be remembered that it is a preventable disease through the use of save sex practices.. and no drugs. Check out Jan Yong's blog.
So, I'm going to say again... I having nothing to do with gays and lesbian. I'm not turning gay.
This post is dedicated to a friend on her assignment toward Malaysian homosexual society, and she's a female which is not lesbian. Mind you!!
*off~ I'M NOT GAY!

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Anonymous said...

Wow, you are not gay. When did you first know you were NOT gay?

Your intentions seem good with this article, however you clearly think gay=bad, straight=good.

You think people are gay 100%? and straight 100%? In fact, according to scientific studies, no one is 100% anything. We're all a little of many things.

So, yes, you are gay, a bit. And, its normal, And its ok.

"the government and the society in Brooklyn doesn't feel comfortable about homosexuality" How do you know? Are you saying no one feels comfortable? Why are they uncomfortable? In fact, why are YOU uncomfortable to be gay? What makes you so uncomfortable about someone else being 99% gay, 80% gay, 10% gay?

Do you think gay people care if you are 90% straight?

We are all made by God. If we are a little bit gay or a big bit gay, then so is God.

Normal? Of course it is. We are all products of nature.

Is it normal for a human to drive a car? No, but we do. So what's normal got to do with anything?

The only thing that matters is that people are free to do as they please, live their lives as they wish, without harming anyone. If someone feels "uncomfortable" thats their own problem, and a condition within themselves.

Best wishes growing up.

Anonymous said...

the government and the society in Brooklyn doesn't feel comfortable about homosexuality

was refering to the movie Chuck & Larry

This post was not about being normal is good.
Please don't assume one's intention without understanding it.

best wishes growing up too! :)

Anonymous said...

Thanks for writing this.